“Geography has made us neighbors. History has made us friends. Economics has made us partners and necessity has made us allies. Those whom God has so joined together, let no man put asunder.” –John F. Kennedy
A familiar but wise adage has once said that in the prospect of closing a deal on a residential property you would soon call your own, it is best to ask about the neighbors first before buying the home. After all, you can make all the necessary changes you possibly can in your home. But it would be almost next to impossible to change your neighbors. In this regard, fostering a good relationship with your neighbors should be one of your primary considerations when you move into a neighborhood. Having strong relations with your neighbors cultivates a sense of oneness and bond in the neighborhood and is the initial step towards becoming a better community.
Today, with technological innovations and advancements dominating the world, it can be rather easy to live in our own little bubble and interact with the rest of the world from the screen of your desktops or mobile phones. However, this would be counter intuitive to a strong community wherein the residents interact. Unfortunately, this presents the reality today. You can live a mere feet away from your neighbors for decades only to never learn their name. This is especially prevalent in condominium and apartment complexes where neighbors barely interact with each other at all and would instead go straight to their units from a tiresome day at work.
However, regardless of whether you are living in flats such as in Avida Settings Alviera or an apartment complex, fostering a good relationship with the people living in proximity to you is paramount. Here are the most compelling reasons why:
1.) You can count on them
One of the best reasons why you should develop a friendly relationship with your neighbors has something to do with safety. The deeper the bond you have with them, the more inclined they will be to alert you in any case of emergency of trouble. Should there be an attempted burglary in your homes, a tampering of your car, smoke coming out from your kitchen or even an unidentified person trying to gain entry, you can count on your friendly neighbors to give you a head’s up. Even better, you can rely on them to call the police on your behalf as well.
2.) You can borrow from them
There are times wherein you might need a stick of butter, a cup of sugar, a pair of garden shears or even, an extra pair of hands to help you out. If you have a good relationship with your neighbors, they will be more than happy to oblige your request or even let you borrow whatever it is that you need. In this regard, they would also expect that you would do the same thing for them in their time of need. While you are free to borrow pretty much anything from your neighbor, be sure to return it. However, refrain from borrowing cash—that is one way to immediately sour your relationship with your neighbors should you default on payment.
3.) Help when needed
One of the excellent things about having a good relationship with your neighbors is knowing that you can count on them whenever you do need something. As we cannot plan for every possibility, it would be very much assuring to know that you can always get yourself out of a snag in the community with the help of your neighbors. From home lockouts to dead car batteries, you can always ask for your neighbor’s assistance in giving your car a quick jump or calling the locksmith to provide you with access to your homes.
4.) Stand-in babysitter
Do you have a date night planned with your partner? Well, all is well and good so long as you can find someone who can watch the kids while you and your spouse are out. Unfortunately, competent and trustworthy babysitters are somewhat hard to come by nowadays. However, if you trust your neighbors and have developed a bond with them, they would be very much happy to watch the kids for you while you are gone. If they have teenagers who are in need of extra cash, you might find that you would not even need to call a professional babysitting service at all and just employ them to watch your kids. Be sure to compensate them for their time, however—regardless of how happy they are to help. Your neighbors should not feel like they are taken advantage of and one way of ensuring that does not happen is giving them pecuniary compensation for their time and efforts.